Misfit is the label given by society to those
humans who don’t match the criteria for ‘normal’ behavior,
beliefs and desires.
Most so-called ‘normal’ people accept if they
are to sport the ‘normal’ badge, they will be required to
shape themselves into psychological, career and social boxes
that we know deep down are not contoured to the freedom,
spontaneity and genuine expression of the individual spirit.
The ‘normal’ illusion versus reality
In other words to become normal will most
likely require us to deny or suppress our individual and
unique human spirit. And because this denial and suppression
is SO painful we are driven to opiate ourselves with TV
and material goods to stop us becoming neurotic about not
being real.
The powers that be know that. They maintain
control by forcing us to slave at the altar of money whilst
hypnotically drawing us to all manner of stuff designed
specifically to dumb us down.
Imagine all life on earth as being an integral
part of a huge multi-dimensional jigsaw puzzle. All members
of the mineral, plant, animal and human kingdoms are given
a specific, unique structure and ‘shape’ that is designed
to fit into the puzzle and complete the big picture. The
fit is dependent on the unique structure of each part of
the system maintaining it’s shape system.
Fitting into THIS puzzle should be easy because
our given role is to be who we truly are deep down beneath
the programming and fully express our unique gifts, skills
and talents.
However, the world hasn’t learned to work
like that. We aren’t taught to explore and realize our true
role.
Instead most of us are forced to squeeze ourselves
into a distorted shape to fit the illusory big picture thus
creating a global distortion. It’s a bit like the ‘ugly’
sister trying in vain to squeeze her foot into the shoe
designed uniquely for Cinderella.
When we assume our proper, unique shape, and
step into our own shoes, the entire world operates smoothly
in harmonic orchestration, this is what we call REAL-FIT
How to tell if you’re a real-fit
If you’ve felt like a mis-fit for most of
your life, or wondered why the world is so alien to your
way of thinking and being; if you sense that society is
unjustly organized; that people’s spirit is suppressed and
that money as the primary goal has become a self-looping
addiction, then you’re probably a REAL-FIT.
You’ve likely refused to squeeze yourself
into a shape that you’ve known is NOT you and you’ve paid
their price for being real.
Psychoanalyst and Social commentator, Dr Erich
Fromm questioned the definition of normalcy in his paper
‘The Psychology of Normalcy’. He suggested that neurotic
symptoms are not a ‘default’ on the part of the individual.
Instead, they are a partial rejection of oppressive or alienating
society.
So what the frack is considered normal in
21st century society?
As you read this list you will likely realize
with gratitude just how abnormal [according to today’s standards]
yet real [according to universal laws] you are.
And, you will be reminded once more of the
degree of perverted thinking that is gripping the majority
of people in our so-called ‘civilized’ society.
In ‘normal’ society all of these behaviors
are going on all the time and until now have been commonly
accepted as ‘how life is’.
The Real Mis-Fits
Below are some of the things that we have
been taught are how life is. They are mostly considered
‘normal’ and acceptable to the majority of society despite
the fact that they go against the laws of nature and true
humanity. And most of you reading this, including the authors,
will have bought into this normality in some way or another.